| Women
at Christ's birth (unknown) |
ELIZABETH, mother of John:
I am Elizabeth, the wife of Zacharias, and the mother of John, called the
Baptist, the cousin of the girl Mary. The miracle of my conception, the strange
and wonderful things that occurred in the life of my husband, the life and death
of my son, are most wondrous and filled with the power of the Lord. Were there
time, I would tell you of it all from the beginning of those lonely and
despairing years when Zacharias and I became convinced that I was the most
useless of all vessels, a barren woman, to the tragic death of my fine son at
the whim of a court harlot. I would tell you of the glory and wonder of that day
in the house of the Lord, the Temple of the Most High, when a heavenly radiance
shone round, and for the first time in many generations, a heavenly messenger
appeared. I would try to describe to you the look in the eyes of my aged husband
as he suffered the silence of discipline and his exaltation when he was finally
able to cry that I, an old woman, was to conceive and bare the man child that
would make straight the way for the coming of the Lord. I would tell you of that
child, of his
strength and goodness, of his power and humility, of his complete submission to
the will of the Almighty God. But there is no time, and so, I will share with
you only one small moment, most precious to me, that lifted my spirit and made
my heart overflow with gratitude and goodness of God. Within my body, I carried
a child. You women who have experienced the wonder and awe of those
firsttrembling movements of beginning life will know what I knew when, as my
cousin Mary came to my door, I felt my babe leap within me, as the Holy Ghost
bore solemn witness that the chosen mother of the Lord stood before me. I knew
that thrill incident to the quickening spirit of my own blessed conception, and
I returned her greeting with gratitude and reverence: "Blessed art thou
among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb." She
responded, that flawless vessel of the Lord, with one of the most beautiful and
glorious hymns of praise known to mankind:"My soul doth magnify the Lord,
and my spirit hath rejoiced in God, my Savior. For he hath regarded the low
estate of his handmaiden; for, behold, from henceforth all generations shall
call me blessed. For he that is mighty hath done to me great things; and holy is
his name. And his mercy is on them that fear him from generation to generation.
He hath showed strength with his arm; he hath scattered the proud in the
imagination of their hearts. He hath put down the mighty from their seats, and
exalted them of low degree. He hath filled the hungry with good things; and the
rich he hath sent empty away. He hath helped his servant
Israel in remembrance of this mercy; as he spake to our fathers, to Abraham, and
his seed forever." Indeed, he had done all those glorious things. But even
more, He had
given to mankind, His own son, and for one precious instant in eternity, He had
granted to an ordinary old woman, the privilege of a personal witness that this
was, indeed, the Christ - Savior of the world. I bear to each of you this day,
that same witness.
THE MOTHER OF JOSEPH, the carpenter:
Joseph is my son. He is a quiet man, strong and steady, with wonderful eyes,
kind, and gentle, and warm. When he enters our home in the evenings, with the
clean scent of new wood about him and the tiny fragile shavings still clinging
to the coarseness of his robe, the room, filled with his presence, becomes a
place of peace and contentment. And while he is not given to laughter, this
serious, soft-spoken son of mine has, nevertheless, a slow, sweet smile that
transforms his face and warms the hearts of those around him. He is a good man,
my Joseph, with a deep and abiding faith in God and the strength to keep His
laws. And so it was, when he thought the
law had been broken, his eyes spoke of the pain his lips could not, and shadows
filled his home where had been only love and light. You see, Joseph had finished
his carpenter apprenticeship and was about to take a wife. He had chosen for his
own, the girl Mary, fine and gentle, as pure and as fair as the morning light.
And the love they bore, these two, one for the other, made our whole world a
better place to be. And so, both families agreeing, the betrothal ceremony took
place. It was as binding as marriage, indeed, if the bridegroom should happen to
die, law considers the betrothed girl a widow. If she is unfaithful, she is
labeled an adulteress. And, once betrothed, the only way the contract can be
broken is through divorce. I tell you this that you may
know the custom here in Galilee, and that you might better begin to understand
what was in our hearts in the days that followed. We were nearly ready, Joseph
and I, and Mary and her family. The marriage was to have taken place a year
after the betrothal and our time had been spent in carefully, lovingly
furnishing the small home that was to be their own, and in preparing for the
solemn reception in that home.I was so proud -- proud of my strong son, and
proud of the lovely woman with whom he had chosen to share his life. And then,
suddenly, amazingly, heartbreakingly -- Mary was with child. It was not to be
believed. Not Mary. And yet it was so. I had only to look into the face of my
Joseph to know that the moral agony I saw had nothing to do with rumor or doubt.
To divorce or send away the woman he loved; according to Jewish law these were
the only two alternatives. She could be sent away to have her child and not
return to Nazareth -- hurt, humiliated. Love of the law, love of one's
wife-to-be. Joseph was torn with pain and I suffered with him. And then, like a
miracle, the shadows were gone. We say little of what happened that night, for
it is a private thing and not to be subjected to the doubts and jeers of a
mocking world. What was said in that moment when a messenger of the Lord spoke
with my son, is for him alone to know. But the purpose was plain - this woman
most dear, was infinitely worthy to become even dearer. Mary of Nazareth, most
blessed among women, was to become the mother of the Messiah. With strength and
dignity, filled with faith and the desire to give his Mary as much protection
and devotion as possible, Joseph married her immediately, and my heart swelled
with pride. You see, of all the souls in heaven, the Lord God had His choice of
the man to be the earthly father of his only begotten son.
With great care and deliberation would He have chosen a man to do the thousand,
no millions, of gentle, thoughtful things a father does for a beloved son. It
was Joseph who would cradle the babe in his strong, clean, work roughened hands.
Joseph who would walk with him in and through the hills and streets and into the
synagogues for evening prayers and smile at him across the table. If I, like the
Lord, knowing I could not be the earthly companion of my beloved, my ONLY
BEGOTTEN SON, were to choose such a companion to take my place, I would choose
the best, the very best. I would choose from among the kind of men I had known
and respected before the
foundations of this world were laid, men like Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph who
was sold into Egypt, Noah, Moses, Enoch, and Elijah. And yet my son, Joseph, the
carpenter, was chosen to be the earthly father of Jesus, the Christ-- Savior of
the World. Joseph, my son.
THE MOTHER OF THE GIRL, MARY:
I am the mother of Mary. And yes, you are right, there is not a great deal said
of me, but that is as it should be. My place in the warp and weave of the
patterns of those days is inconspicuous, unheralded; yet, it is not without its
moments of attending glory. For you see, it is my grandson that is called
Redeemer, Savior, Jesus the Christ. It was my daughter -- young, sweet, pure,
and ever obedient to whom Gabriel appeared, my daughter to whom he said, "Hail,
thou that art highly favored; the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among
women." In common with other daughters of Israel, specifically those of the
tribe of Judah and of known descendant from David,
my Mary had contemplated with holy joy and ecstasy, the coming of the Messiah
through our royal line; she knew that some Jewish maiden was yet to become the
mother of the Christ. But was it possible that the angel's words to her had
reference to this supreme expectation and hope of the nation? She had little
time to turn these things in her mind, for the angel continued. "Fear not
Mary, for thou hast found favor with God. And, behold, thou shalt conceive in
thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name Jesus. He shall be
great, and shall be called the Son of the Highest; and the Lord God shall give
unto him the throne of his father David; and he shall reign over the house of
Jacob forever; and of his kingdom, there shall be no end." Even yet she
comprehended but in part the importance of this momentous visitation. Not in the
spirit of doubt such as had prompted Zacharias to ask for a sign but through an
earnest desire for information, she asked, "How shall this be, seeing I
know not a man?" This answer to her natural and simple inquiry was the
announcement of a miracle through the operation of higher law, such as the human
mind ordinarily fails to comprehend or regard possible. Mary was informed she
would conceive and in time bring forth a Son, of whom no mortal man would be the
father. And the angel answered and said unto her. "The Holy Ghost shall
come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee; therefore
also that holy thing that shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of
God." Then the angel told her of the blessed condition of her cousin
Elizabeth, who had been barren; and by way of sufficient and final explanation
added, "For with God nothing shall ben impossible." With gentle
submissiveness and humble acceptance the pure young virgin replied, "Behold
the handmaiden of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word." His
message delivered, Gabriel departed, leaving the chosen Virgin of Nazareth to
ponder over her wondrous experience. My daughter's promised son was to be "The
Only Begotten" of the Father in the flesh. The child Jesus was to inherit
the physical, mental and spiritual traits, tendencies, and powers that
characterized his parents: one, immortal and glorified -- God; the other human
-- woman...my daughter Mary. This child, whom I had conceived and reared, for
whom I had wiped tears and mended broken dolls, who had worked at my side, was
to be the mother of God. I knew her better than any other person on the face of
the earth, and I say to you, she was fit for her calling -- pure, stainless, and
infinitely good. She had the strength and courage to humbly accept not only the
birth, but the crucifixion and death of her perfect son, Jesus of Nazareth. I
watched him grow, both in body and spirit, and long before I was called to leave
this
earth, indeed, even from the very beginning, when an angel of the Lord visited
our simple Galilean cottage with the greatest news ever given, I knew that the
child Jesus, was, indeed, the Christ. He was my grandson. He is my Lord. I know
it. I glory in it. I testify of it. And so be it forever.
THE WIFE OF THE SHEPHERD:
My husband is a shepherd. And at times, in the spring of the year, when the
nights are cool, and the stars hang so low in the heavens I want to reach up and
pull one to me with the crooked end of my husband's staff, we go into the fields,
and there, together, we watch the flocks. There are those who say we are poor,
that of the many who come and go, wander and stay in this beloved and ancient
land, we are the lowliest, and the most humble. Humble? Perhaps. Indeed, it is
what we desire. But poor? Oh my friend, if only I could give you the eyes to see,
the heart to feel the vastness and incredible beauty of the ageless Judean hills,
the deep peace and contentment we've found in this land of unspoiled solitude,
the quiet, almost unspeakable joy we feel in the companionship we share, one
with another, and with the Almighty God. Hardly poor - in fact, infinitely
richer than the madman Herod who sits decaying with disease and corruption in
his marble palace beyond the hills. They say of Herod that within his great
palace are vast treasures of gold and precious gems. And yet, I, the wife of a
lowly shepherd would not part with one instant, be it so small, of the miracle
that unfolded before us in the fields, not so very long ago. No, not for a
hundred times, and a hundred times again the wealth of the man who dares call
himself our king. They tell of that night, that night of all nights, in a great
book -- the one you call the Bible. It tells in words, lovely and true, of that
night when worlds and eternity alike stood still, and witnessed the birth of
Jesus, the Christ. And I was there, it was I, I who stood with my heart, my
soul, soaring, shivering, and singing, while the glory of the Lord shone round
about. The Glory of the Lord -- there are no words to describe it. It was like
-- like the very first dawning on all creation, and every dawn thereafter
glowing and melting into one -- shimmering, shining, throbbing, awesome and
frightening. We WERE so afraid. But then came the voice -- clear, piercing sweet,
beautiful beyond description. "Unto you is born this day, in the city of
David, a Savior, which is Christ the Lord." And suddenly, there was with
the angel, a multitude of the heavenly hosts
praising God, and saying, "Glory to God in the Highest, and on Earth peace,
good will toward men." Like an infinite and eternal exaltation of larks
they sang; sang until my heart must surely shatter and the tears ran unchecked
down my cheeks and dropped unnoticed upon my clasped and trembling hands. To you,
who have read my story, and considered it a tale for fools and children, I can
say only this -- from this eternity to the next, never ending to never ending --
I SAW WHAT I SAW. And I tell you the truth, as pure and clean and bright as the
noonday sun. Worlds without end, it cannot, will not change. For the humble, it
is easy to believe, as we believed what we heard that night. And because we
believed, we went and did see the child, lying in a manger. We saw, that night,
a sight multitudes of people -- past, present and future -- kings and commoners,
princes and potentates would give their lives to see, the infant son of the Lord
God Almighty. Poor? Ours was a divine gift, a sacred treasure, to be kept deep
within the heart, wondered at, pondered upon, cherished. And then to be told, in
great reverence and in the quiet of night, to children, and they to theirs,
generation to generation. Forever.
WIFE OF THE KEEPER OF AN INN:
For generations, my husband's family have been keepers of an inn here
in Bethlehem. And now, together, we do the same. Ours is a small inn, humble and
unpretentious, nevertheless as clean as we can make it. We take pride in our
simple but carefully prepared meals, our scrubbed floors and well-aired bedding.
Sometimes there are flowers growing from our window pots and we take pleasure in
our small business. It is not a large town, this Bethlehem of Judea, and most of
those calling it home are simple farmers and shepherds. And yet, still and all,
it is a beloved and revered village, endeared to Jewish hearts as the birthplace
of David and that of the prospective Messiah. Each morning, for many years, I
have swept clean the packed earth in front of our door, and have looked into the
faces of those passing through our small village. I have seen many things there
-- anger, despair, pride, acceptance, peace, selfishness, exhaustion. The faces
I forgot, but the things I saw there stay with me, reminding me of how fortunate
I am to be at peace -- content with my life and those things the Lord has seen
fit to bestow upon me. And then came the time of the tax rolls, the proclamation
of Caesar Augustus that here shall be a taxing and registration of the house of
David. It was the second of three such registrations to be held at intervals of
about twenty years. Sleepy Bethlehem was not itself. Its quiet streets were
choked with dust and filled with the voice of tired, hurrying people. The outer
inn was filled to the rafters, and to escape, for a moment, the noise, the heat
and the hurry, I fled to my dooryard. As was my custom, I stood for a moment,
gazing down the street, studying the faces. There was a donkey, and leading it,
a strong young man, obviously fatigued and yet different somehow. There was
pride in the face -- and dignity. He was a poor man, and yet I have seen,
passing my door, great men of the world with much less a look of nobility. This
was a man of the house of David, a house of kings, and here was one of the same
royal lineage. Yet he was more. And then I saw the face of the young woman,
exhausted and great with child riding on the back of the donkey. If the man
leading the animal had about him the air of royalty, this surely was a queen.
Her face was drawn with fatigue and her simple robes powdered with the fine
light dust that lies thick along the roads of Judea. And yet no trace of
discontent, no shadow of complaint, no faint inclination to murmur could I see.
Slowly they came closer and stopped before me. Quietly, the young man asked for
lodging and my heart fell. Perhaps it was because I knew so well how it is to be
tired and heavy with child, but perhaps I sensed something from the young couple
that drew from me a desire to comfort and serve. I don't know, but I did know
that within that hot, crowded, noisy and odorous inn there was no room, no
single corner fit for the birth of a child -any child - but especially this
child. My mind raced. My own room? Impossible. It was crowded already with my
own children and members of my family who had come to pay the same tax. The
sheds behind? No again, they were small and dark, overrun with mice, dirty with
disuse. But there was a stable -- the shelter we kept for our animals in the
hills behind the inn. There would be clean sweet straw, open areas to admit
freshness and light, but most of all, peace and privacy. And so it
was to a humble stable I led them -- these two extraordinary young people. And
having done for them what I could, I left them to rest and returned to the inn.
Evening came, following it, the night -- that night. The night foretold for
centuries, hoped for, prayed for, whispered of around campfires and in
synagogues, during wars, under oppression, on deathbeds. For on that night, made
glorious by a burning and brilliant star and the voices of the hosts of heaven
itself, was born in my stable, the Son of God, the Redeemer of all mankind, the
Savior of the world - Jesus, the Christ. I saw him, lying still and small, in a
common manger. I stood by while humble shepherds filled with the power and
perception of the Holy Spirit bore witness that it was, indeed, the Messiah. I
stood in the shadows, gazed at the radiance of his person, the indescribable
look of joy and peace and love that transfigured the face of his mother and that
of Joseph, the man chosen to care for him. I saw, and I bear solemn testimony --
irrefutable, unshakable, even till death, that I saw born to Mary the virgin,
the son of the highest, the Only Begotten of the Eternal Father -- Jesus, the
Christ. The rise and fall of dynasties, the birth and dissolution of nations,
all the cycles of history as to war and peace, as to prosperity or famine, the
awful happenings of earthquakes and storms, the triumphs of invention and
discovery, the epochs of all the occurrences that make history are chronicled
throughout the world by reference to the year before or after that night -- the
birth of Jesus Christ. A man never lived of whom more has been said and sung,
none to whom more is devoted a greater proportion of the world's literature. He
is extolled by Christian, Muslim and Jew, by skeptic and infidel, by the world'
s greatest poets, philosophers, statesmen, scientists and historians. Even the
profane sinner in the foul sacrilege of his oath acclaims the divine supremacy
of Him whose name he desecrates. I saw born that night, in the city of David,
the one who was, and is, and always will be for eternity and ever, the son of
the Living God, the
Redeemer and Savior of the human race, the Eternal Judge of the souls of men,
the chosen and appointed of the Eternal Father -- in short, the Christ. It is my
solemn witness.
THE MOTHER OF THE CHILD JESUS:
Yes, I am Mary, and yes, Jesus is my son. Indeed, blessed am I among
women. My story is an old one, told and retold from before time began and once
again here today by these women whom I love so well. It is a story of spirit,
rather than history, and its simple and inspiring truth must and will be
manifest by the Holy Spirit rather than by the words of men. I am a woman, much
as the women among you, gifted with the divine opportunity of forming a
partnership with God in providing a mortal temple for the spirits of his
children. It is a sacred thing, motherhood, whether it concerns the
Christ or anyone of the infinitely precious spirits sent to many of you. Sacred,
holy, and beautiful beyond description. For in the pure and undefiled love a
mother has for a child, mankind comes closer to approaching the love of God than
at any other time.
Notes from Kathy Fowkes:
When this was done for the Relief Society Christmas program, each woman wore a
plain piece of cloth (about 4 or 5 feet long) over her head and across her
shoulders. The women were seated together on the front row. One by one they took
a seat facing the audience and read their parts. The simple head coverings made
them equal and covered the modern day dress they were wearing for Christmas.
Since this is about women, it would also be appropriate for a Relief Society
Mother's Day program, as well as for a Christmas program. The music selections
were played on the piano, but might have been vocal performances or both. So far
no one has been able to determine who wrote this. Thanks to the unknown author
who created this and may the person someday know how it has been enjoyed by many
sisters.